Tuesday, January 16, 2018

18.01.14-15 Boats and Beatles


Once I realized I would have a hard time getting to the Manchester airport from Sheffield on Jan 16 for a 9:55 flight, my adventure travel juices kicked in and I came up with an overnight trip to Liverpool on my way to the airport. 

I left on a comfy bus from Sheffield by 7:15 (the ONLY day during my entire visit that I got up before sunrise).  After an hour ride through the Peaks district, charming villages and open countryside, I transferred to a standing room only train at Manchester Picadilly Station for another hour ride (while I sat on one of my roller bags in the aisle - I had a reserved seat in coach A, but could not get there due to so many people, and I was just happy to be on board.) to Liverpool Lime Street Station. 

I could tell by the city map I got at the train station information booth, AND by GoogleMaps that my hotel was walking distance. So off I went, clueless ( since I was not yet oriented and none of the streets are straight - this is true in every village and city I've visited, so I should have known better) about how to get to the hotel.  So after 45 minutes of walking circles around my hotel but not finding it, pulling two roller bags and needing a pit stop, I got a stroke of good luck by asking a kind local gal for directions. Instead, and at my request, she called me a cab and waited for it arrive. She got a knitted bag from me in grateful thanks and 5 minutes later I was checking in to The Z Hotel. Yeah!!!!!

My first destination was to the waterfront area.  I walked along the Mersey River 

to Albert Dock where I had only my second plate of fish and chips since arrival in England.  The first one was good - at a local pub with Dave and Judy on Nov. 30.  In Sheffield we did a lot of cooking at home which was great, but I was ready for one more go of fish and chips and this plate from the chippy on Albert Dock was worth waiting for!


I skipped the Beatles Story museum ( knowing I would get more of that at the Cavern Club)


In favor of spending the rest of the afternoon at the Merseyside Maritime Museum building 

where I toured:
- the Titanic and Lusitania exhibits ( I have a creepy facination about shipwrecks in general and an unreasonable love of the movie Titanic) 

- and the International Slavery Museum where I learned how the Liverpool shipyards were heavily involved in the circle of transport of 
    - European goods to Africa to trade for 
    - human cargo taken by force (despicable practice) to the Western Hemisphere for cheap labor 
    - and the taking of new world goods and resources back to Europe to start the cycle all over again. 
In all, over 10 million people were transported by ship from Europe, a large percentage from Liverpool, between the late 1600's and 1867 when the practice stopped.  Coincidental timing to the US Civil War?

After a complimentary wine and cheese offering at my hotel, I went out to discover lots of live music in the Cavern quarter very near my hotel. I found the door to the original Cavern Club  


with an informational plaque describing it's heyday, closure, redesign and new entrance nearby. I learned that daytime hours are cover charge free with live music after 11 AM, so I put this place on hold and walked into a few others on Mathew Street. All places had Beatles and 1960's memorabilia or references.  I spent some time at Rubber Soul 


enjoying the music offered up by a one man band guitarist/singer with strong instrumental sound track backing.  Very nice!

Next morning, at the suggestion of Heather, I did, in fact, take a "ferry 'cross the Mersey" guided 50 minute boat tour which was great, if not warm. 


Finally, I returned to the Cavern Club where the Beatles performed from March 1961 through Oct 1963.   The one man band was similar to the one I heard the night before, but this guy looked like Paul McCartney. 


It was noon, but there were lots of people inside. I strolled up to a standing spot adjacent to stage left to listen and get a good look. When the artist started trolling the crowd for long distance travelers to heckle, I stayed quiet while he got shouts out from Argentina, Mexico and mainland Europe. Eventually he looked over at me and asked where I was from.  I replied "California" which prompted a not too nice question about RedCoats and a reference to the weather. But he redeemed himself shortly after by abandoning his attempt to get the crowd involved in a sing-along to the Beatles "Help" and launched intend into an awesome version of the Mamas and the Papa's "California Dreamin'. I curtsied to him in appreciation when he was done  and got knowing smiles from the other patrons in the stage left seating area. Excellent experience. 

I would be remiss not to close with this story, however, an equally excellent experience about another close encounter I had with Mike while in the Cavern Club. 

Long time readers might recall (see may 2015 entries for a description of our first trip to England for Curt and Sarah's wedding party) that we were planning an overnight trip to Liverpool in May 2015 but it got cancelled when Mike took a serious fall and ended up in the hospital with fractured vertebrae in his neck.  Now, here I am alone descending the stairs to the famous Cavern Club, hearing music below. When I got to the bottom and entered the bar and stage area, I was overwhelmed with the musical history significance and with sadness that Mike was not here to enjoy this cool place with me. I stepped out of the way to lean against a support beam and started to cry. Then I realized the artist was singing "Don't let the Sun Catch you Crying" by local band Gerry and the Pacemakers". I got that familiar full body sensation that starts in the pit of my stomach and results in unashamed tears of  joy that I had as many years as I did with Mike, my love.   He and I will always be connected through music and travel, and I'm pretty sure he enjoyed my trip to the Cavern Club today.  The music tells me so. 



18.01.01-13. January in England


2018 started out smooth and relaxing. Baby Brynne slept almost all day in her new deluxe swing chair (after several days of active visiting with family and friends) while Curt, Sarah and I had a couch day watching the 6 hour BBC miniseries version of Pride and Prejudice.  Very British and perfect for me since I did the same with Kelly and her family last year on Christmas Day. Good annual tradition!

On Jan 3 we embarked on Brynne's first overnight road trip. We picked up Curt after work and dark  (the sun sets here this time of year at 4:15 PM) and drove 90 minutes through the highly regarded Peaks District to Judy and Dave's house for a quick overnight visit.  Next day after lunch we continued on to Papa Pete's house in the highly regarded Lakes District. 

The first night Pete served us up a proper English pork roast complete with cracklin and roast potatoes. Curt has been raving about the potatoes and I agree, so I wrote down the cooking instructions for both (new to me) dishes, and plan on giving them a try at home.

Our one full day in the Lakes District was pleasant weather so we went out to enjoy. Driving in two cars to accommodate our baby load and Pete's schedule, I got a first class tour guide through the lakes.  Here we stopped for a close up look at Coniston Water where they swim in the summer 

On the way to one of Pete's easy day hike places.  Brynne was a hit on the trail, but walking on damp rocks was tricky for Curt with her in the sling so we made it this far up - maybe half way from the car park. 
Here I am on the same trail looking down 
The next day was beautiful and cold. Before we left for home, we took a family hike in Pete's neighborhood along narrow roads


through fields of sheep 


which are part of the public pathways found all over the country for people to enjoy the land.


Next day, back in Sheffield, I went with Moira 


to the Kellam Island Museum.  Sheffield is famous as a steel making town. Here is a huge steel making vat displayed at the entrance. 

Once inside, we spent the morning fully dressed in a cold warehouse museum that offered a very interesting narrative of the growth of Sheffield since the 1700's. 

This is a statue made of cutlery - one branch of the steel industry and a famous landmark in Sheffield. 
 
On the days at home I spent my time enjoying Brynne's company


 and sewing more decorative cushions for the house. Besides the original plaid cushion, I made two for their bedroom and two for Brynne's room 


which Sarah is starting to focus on now that the newborn days and Holidays are over. 

On Curt's next off work day, we took a road trip to Nottingham, home of Robin Hood and company. We visited the remains of the castle 


and took a tour of the actual underground caves which ended, conveniently at the oldest pub in England, Ye Old Road to Jerusalem 
for a bit of refreshment and an exciting diaper change. 


On my last full day in Sheffield we walked to "the allotment" to take a look at the progress Curt has made since my visit on Dec 2 when I 
arrived. 

While Brynne slept in the wheelbarrow 
Then we went to a local pub to have a Saturday night and farewell visit with Heather, John and buddy Bird. 



I'm all packed and ready to leave via taxi at 7:15 tomorrow A

Tuesday, January 2, 2018

17.12.01-31. GramGram meets Brynne

The month of December was like none I've experienced before. Christmastime in Sheffield, England, living a normal ( not a touristy) life and getting ready for Christmas at home with Curt and Sarah.  The highlight, of course, has been getting to know my first grandchild - Brynne Tomczak Whillance who was born on Oct 19.
She is beautiful. She is perfect. She is loved.  She has no care in the world with parents who love her and each other.

I started out slow - simply holding, singing and reading, and entertaining her when it was my turn for the first week.


I started nappie (diaper) changes and home alone together caregiving during the second week so Curt and/or Sarah could get away for errands for short periods. I think Brynne and I are getting along very nicely.

Besides my role as GramGram ( this name was suggested by Curt who - with Sarah - has a tradition of naming things with this twin word convention ie: "CarCar" and "TruckTruck" for their vehicles, so I was honored to be offered the name GramGram)  have also been doing a lot of cooking and kitchen duty which I was hoping I could do because it is normal activity for me and a break for Curt and Sarah.

They are also still getting settled in their house (they moved in only a few weeks before Brynne was born) by shopping for household items and decorating.  Sarah bought fabric to recover her dining table chairs
and I got her sewing machine up and running which has been fun for me since I used to do a lot of sewing in my younger days. It was like "getting back up on the bicycle" ( figuring out how to thread the machine and load the bobbin)  and feels really go to be sewing.  I made matching cushion and bench seat cover for the dining table.
And Sarah made three cushions to give as Christmas gifts to her family. 

I did not rent a car this time like I did when we were here in 2015 for the wedding party since I can walk to a butcher and two different stores for groceries.  Even walking is a bit scary - it is really important to be careful when crossing streets - looking both ways takes on a different meaning here since the cars drive on the left side of the road.  The street the kids live on is wide enough for the residents to park their cars at the curb and for one vehicle to thread through the center of the street,
so drivers must yield to oncoming traffic at any open spot they can find along the curb or at an intersection and let the oncoming vehicle law before continuing on. Crazy!

Christmas day was unusual. We met up at the local pub with family and friends for a couple hours

then had delicious and traditional Christmas tea with crackers ( crazy party favors with hats , gifts and jokes)
and a fun afternoon and evening at home with sister Heather and John at their house.

On Dec 28 all the non-Sheffield family came to our house for another dinner casual (this time with a chili buffet) and an exciting and chaotic gift exchange.

Some of us went for a walk the next day - it started out sunny and we went to a park between our house and Heather/John's house, but it ended up pretty cold and wet.

Dec 30 is Sarah's birthday. We went to Cross Scythes - the same local and child friendly pub for family time with Papa Pete and all.

Then home to rest up for the final event of 2017 ....more child friendly pub time after Curt got out of work and a house party later to ring in the new year with baby Brynne.  Yeah!

It was great to be with Curt, Sarah and Brynne this holiday season. It helped me to be forward looking and distracted from the one missing person in my life. So let me share a photo from Christmas past
And from New Years past
and give three cheers to Mike who helped make this family possible
and whom is enjoying the festivities with us from afar, I am sure.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, my love!