Tuesday, May 30, 2017

17.05.27. Dia de la boda

Hay lluvia en la mañana.  There was rain in the morning. I was not part of the resulting chaos until about 3:30 when I rode in work clothes with Eric and Clau to the event with Lupita who HAD been at the venue in the morning. She had a story to tell during the drive to the event, and I am happy to report "no entendí" ( I did not understand) any of the specifics, but the message was clear. The rain had been a problem for the wedding planners. 

When we arrived at 4:15 for a 5:00 posted arrival time, the tables were still being rearranged under the palapa, and were not set.  The best I could do to help was to work with the table crew to tie the seat pads to the dinner chairs for the tables under the palapa roof.  The palm branches we worked on yesterday were never at risk of ruin and looked lovely as doorway arches. 
 

Lupita looked radiant as the mother of the bride after we all changed out of our work clothes to begin the party. 
 

Guests began to arrive on time by shuttle van from Bacalar, before we were ready, but were patient, understanding and dry. In fact good luck and the sun shone down on the happy couple and we all stayed dry the rest of the afternoon and night except for the when Abe and Isa chose to share their vows with each other and offer up an offering to the earth while standing in the lagoon 
 

Claudia was radiant as part of the wedding party - three cousins and four friends of the bride ( one friend is missing from this photo).
 
Eric y yo tomamos un buen foto con Claudia. 
 

And here is a good photo of las hermanas con sus esposos.
 

I had dinner at the adult table with Lupita and her family/friends.  During dinner there was much rapid group chatter and some one-on-one slow conversation with my table neighbors. I kept saying "no entendí mucho, pero disfruto todos" ( I dont understand much, but I enjoy all"). Including the tequila and coca the hombres de la familia offered me. 
Sergio, the bride's brother performed first with his Beatles cover band. Then a continuous string of live band and DJ music kept the youngsters entertained until dawn.....

 
but I took the shuttle bus home at 1:00 with the only other primary English speaking person I met at the wedding. Al was a friend of the groom's family who flew in from Toronto. He told me he had good intentions to learn some Spanish, but didn't get very far, so he asked me for help negotiating the ride home on the shuttle van. 

No problemo para mi!

Monday, May 29, 2017

17.05.24-26 Pre-wedding festivities

Like almost any wedding that includes 170 invited guests, outdoor set up and the distinct possibility of rain, the day of the event was a little chaotic.  The four day/night family gathering, however was a completely enjoyable experience for an English speaking relative by marriage with no responsibility whatsoever except to try to figure out how to be helpful at best, and stay out of the way at least. 

The preparations (from my perspective) actually started in Cancun the previous week when I helped Claudia put together the envelopes which would be displayed at the guest book table to receive regalos de dinero.  This task was a piece of cake!
 

Upon arrival in Bacalar,  I walked the short distance from Casita Carolina to El Manati, the restaurant/artist colony/gift shop owned by the bride (Claudia's sister ) and groom, Isa and Abe.  This was on Monday afternoon, a full four days before most of the guests were coming in to town from far and wide.  I offered my services to Isa and received a warm "if I think of something I'll let you know".  I understand the difficulty of delegating last minute logistics-she was in charge and needed to concentrate, so I relaxed and enjoyed two days of lakeside R&R at my hotel while the wedding plans went on.  

On Tuesday I went in to El Manati for breakfast and sat in the lovely garden area out back where Isa and Abe had recently designed and had built a unique palapa that served as a private dining area and a larger than life sized piece of art.  Another table in the garden was hosting the groom's parents who had just arrived in town. 
 

Clau and Eric arrived on Wednesday with Lupita and a birthday cake - it was ALSO Abe's birthday today. We went to the first group gathering after dinner at El Manati - a time for them to share their beautiful space with family and local friends.  Abe is an artist creating large sculptures with natural materials. Here is one on display for sale inside the building 
 
and you can see one on a pole behind my head in the outdoor seating area picture. After dark the outdoor palapa and garden area served as a comfortable place for the "kids" to congregate and for me to attempt to understand group conversation. 
 

Thursday was another day of rest for Eric, Clau and I while mother and bride went to Chetamul, a larger town
 nearby to do nails and other wedding errands. A bride needs her mother for things like that. 

Friday was a busy day for setup. We all went to Rancho Alegre, the outdoor wedding venue about 10 minutes out of town. 
It is in a beautiful spot on the lake, and is a fairly undeveloped resort - they had to hire in a big generator for electricity 
in the kitchen / palapa eating area and for lights and amplification for the band. 

The chicas were weaving palm branches for decorations on the floor of the big palapa,
 
so being the enthusiastic knitter I am, I figured this was one way I could help.  I sat down and worked to 
weave one half of a 12 foot palm branch after getting instructions for an easy to learn skill. This task was fun!
 
They used other plant leaves to make table seating assignment signs
 
and they hollowed out dozens of pineapples to use as the base for flower center pieces for the tables and added
 the pineapple fruit to the munchies tray to be eaten before dinner.
 
Friday night was the first official wedding event. I was introduced to many people, some I remember faces, others I even remember names,


 
but very few were I able to understand while they were having family reunion conversations with each other. 

I did engage one on one with many people to demonstrate my willingness to attempt to communicate and as usual received encouragement and compliments about being understood or about having improved since I was here last year. 

The family's kindness and enthusiastic right-cheek-to-right-cheek greetings upon arrival and departure at every event ( like they greeted everybody) left me confident I was welcome. 

Saturday, May 27, 2017

17.05.22-25. Casita Carolina, Bacalar

I'd never traveled by bus in Mexico before, and was pretty late getting to the bus station in Cancun, so it is not surprising I heard "Last Call for Bacalar" in español while standing in what turned out to be the wrong line. Panic!  Wait for me!  

The people in line ahead of me had backpacks - young adults and seasoned travelers, I supposed.  They heard my exclamation, looked at my ticket, pointed me toward the obviously labeled departure gates and watched me speed away with my one big roller bag in tow. 

Good luck was with me because before I reached the line at the departure gate, I saw a worker, showed him my ticket and cried "Ayudar! Voy a Bacalar".  I followed him out a side entrance to the loading area and got to my bus which was running, but still at the curb.  The driver had to exit the bus, look at my ticket and open the luggage compartment for my roller bag before he got back in the driver seat and drove away. That was a close one!  (Plan B would have been much more difficult:)

The five hour bus ride from Cancun to Bacalar was very comfortable. Air conditioning, bathroom, cushy seats and countinuous movies which I half listened to while I wrote my last blog entry ( This writing stuff is time consuming, but what else do I have to do?  I'm on vacation!). The movies were all Spanish, no subtitles, of course.  The first two were action flicks - not my genre -  but I am interested in renting the 3rd movie with Spanish subtitles  - "Bobby" - about the tumultuous year 1968 through the lense of Bobby Kennedy's campaign.  We arrived at Bacalar before that movie ended, but I can guess the closing scene.   

Upon arrival I took a 20 peso, five minute taxi ride to Casita Carolina where I checked in to Cuarto Verde
 which has a shared kitchen space in the building's entry with Cuarto Azul ( the room Mike and I stayed in last year when we were here after Eric and Claudia's wedding.).  The green room also has natural air conditioning from the stiff breeze blowing in off Laguna Bacalar - the lake of seven colors. 
 
First thing I did was to walk the 1/4 mile to El Centro to get a six pack and a good batch of guacamole to go from a local restaurant so I could enjoy the rest of the afternoon until sunset
  
while resting in the hammock in Cadita Carolina's front yard. 
 
Someone was missing, though (Here is a picture taken almost exactly one year ago.  Mike needed help getting in and out of the hammock, but he enjoyed the ride)
 
Lucky for me, Eric and Claudia showed up after I'd been here two nights.  
 
That day after a cooling swim in the Laguna we watched the property's gardner shake down some coconuts from one of the coco trees,
 
open them with a machete and share them with the few guests in attendance at the time
 
The locals know to be wary of falling coconuts.  They could do damage if some unwary tourist was at the wrong place at the wrong time under a fully laden coconut tree like the ones in Casita Carolina's front yard. But when a coconut is invited down by an experienced machete wielding gardener?  The  unwary tourist who is at the right place at the right time gets fresh coconut from the nut after drinking the coco water - priceless!

Wednesday, May 24, 2017

17.05.18-21 I'm not in Kansas anymore

Six clues I'm not in Kansas any more.......

Clue #1:   Cold water showers feel great!

After Isla Mujeres I spent four nights in "La Casa de Lupita" with Claudia and her mom.  I heard "mi casa, su casa" more than than once and I believe it. 
 
But in "mi casa" I take my showers as hot as I can get them. Here in Cancun I enjoyed the cold showers - they feel great to reduce body temperature, if only until one gets out and dressed again.

Clue #2.  Afternoon siestas are a real thing 

Lupita is a skin care doctor and sees patients in her home.  Patients are scheduled through 3:00 PM at which time the patients and help go home.  After the family eats a hearty lunch, everyone retires to their room for a siesta until 5:00 or so.  Then the "afternoon" errands and personal tasks begin.  Here is Claudia working at sunset time and beyond on a gardening project on the rooftop of her friend's yoga studio. 
 
Claudia and Eric have designed the layout and contents of the rooftop planter boxes which will provide fresh herbs and veggies for the young studio's juice bar and cafe.


Clue #3. Movie popcorn with a kick. 

We went to see a movie - Lo Que Verdad Importa (The Healer) at a new theatre in a big shopping mall.  We got a jumbo  popcorn to share and they put salsa picante on top of the butter!  I'd never heard of such a thing, but when in Mexico......  They would have added jalapeños too had I not been there! I was glad they skipped the jalapeños but I did enjoy the salsa picante. 
 
The advertisements and previews were all in Spanish. The movie itself was the English sound track with Spanish subtitles which I read the whole way through in my quest to improve my Spanish. I enjoyed the movie even though and because it dealt with general sickness, terminal illness and the existence of heaven which caused me to have an intense but healing cry when the movie ended. 

Clue #4.  Where's the baseball?

We had a date to meet Claudia's dad and Grandma for dinner ( after siesta and "afternoon" chores dinner starts at 9:00 PM). Dad chose TGIFridays. Great, I thought, something familiar. NOT!  It looked like a TGIFridays from the outside, and was similar on the inside except:
-Menus in Spanish
-Menu items with a Mexican flair
-Soccer on the big screen TVs
-No baseball!

 

Clue #5.    Home Depot is dyslexic 
Read the signs!
 
Lupita took me on her errand to Home Depot ( it was too hot to wait in the car, and I wanted to see it for myself anyway). It looked very much as I expected including the reverse image of signage inside - Spanish with English subtitles.


Clue #6. Breakfast serenade

We went to Sunday morning breakfast and were treated to live traditional Mexican musicians - one on a harp and one on a small instrument in the guitar family.  When they were done they visited the tables to pass the hat.  Unusual but enjoyable!
 

One of the things I love about travel is to enjoy different sights and experiences than those familiar at home. 

One of the things I've learned since being a full-time motor home dweller is that home is wherever I choose it to be. Home is currently in Cancun and the Yucatan Peninsula, Mexico. 

One of the things I learned from Dorothy is "there is no place like home".

Monday, May 22, 2017

17.05.18-21. Bye Bye Isla Mujeres

Before I left the Island on May 18 I was happy to start my day with another yoga session in the PocNa Hostel beach yard. 
I attended yoga here five times over the nine mornings I woke up on the island, and by the fourth yoga session I had opted for bathing suit attire due to the heat and the beach aura. 

While I only stayed at PocNa two nights, I returned almost daily for yoga in the morning, hammock swings in the afternoon or one Saturday night beach bar beer gathering. Then  I spent 15 minutes talking to a young man from Cancun who spoke several languages besides Spanish and English and said he frequently comes over to PocNa for the weekend to meet the international clientele.

I told him ( and everyone I speak with in Spanish) about my recent loss:  "mi esposo murió hace cinco meses" and about "mi familia local porque mi hijo caso Claudia de Cancún".  I could tell he understood what I was trying to say because he was complimentary to my Spanish and encouraged me "continuar practicando".  I encouraged him to continue on his Saturday night journey and soon he was talking to some chicas his age on the yoga pad turned dance floor.  I took it as a compliment that he chose to spend some time with me:).   
 
Thumbs up for PocNa!  Now back to my day.  

After yoga I returned to my hotel to vacate by noon, but had time to kill before boarding the ferry for Cancun, so I followed a local street vendor's recommendation (I must have looked lost in street clothes carting my bags) to Picus Cocteleria.  This was a pleasant outdoor restaurant located literally on the sand between the street and the water near the ferry dock.  I had lunch in the shade and watched charter catamarans offload boatloads of people from Cancun.  Some came to Picus for lunch. Others disbursed to enjoy other beachside restaurants, shopping or la Playa Norte.  Mike and I always used to say it was good to live  (i.e. in the motor home or for ten days on Isla Mujeres) where other people come to vacation. 

Since I was comfortable in the shade and had time I decided to share some more photos and Isla Mujeres stories.....

This is the pool I decided to crash one afternoon. 
 
In the lower right corner you can see a small blue water foot bath provided for guests to rinse the sand from la Playa Norte off their feet before getting in the big pool. I figured this was an invitation, and if necessary, I would buy a drink or leave, depending on the situation. Instead, I found a comfy lounge chair in the shade and worked on my blog for a couple hours and saw no one to challenge my presence. I did watch a bunch of rowdy tourists from somewhere in the southern US enjoying the pool and discussing the peso/US$ exchange rate and cost of drinks and excursions.  Made me happy to be staying in a small locally owned hotel where I can speak Spanish with the staff. I did enjoy this pool, though:)

One day I took the recommendation of Ricardo (Richard, from Oregon, the fluent Spanish speaker I met at PocNa my first morning) to rent snorkel gear and enjoy the shallow lagoon with protective reef at the shoreline.  
  
The fish were interesting and the water was warm so I spent an hour or so swimming  with snorkel gear in this large lagoon surrounding an all inclusive resort at the end of la Playa Norte.  
 
I did run in to a current heading out to sea, but nothing like the tidal river I described in my "Under the Sea" post.  By noon I'd had enough exercise and decided to head for the shade of a palm tree on the beach for the rest of the afternoon. 

I'm happy to report that after 10 days of beach activity I am not sunburned. I think this is partly because I had a pretty good base from my time at Carlsbad in April, I used sunscreen and wore a hat, and partly because I have a low tolerance for sweating so chose the shade whenever possible. No straight up laying in the sun for me.  

The only sun complaint I have is that my lips are chapped. I guess they don't like the several types of facial cream, medicated lip balm or lip gloss that I've been using to bring them back to normal. 

Good thing I'm not wanting to use my lips for
any amorous activities right now:)

Except to blow a kiss to the beautiful Isla Mujeres. Bye Bye Isla. You have been very good to me:)

Thursday, May 18, 2017

17.05.19 Bye Bye Beach Buns

When I first arrived on the island I was a little shocked at the number, style and quañity of buns on display. But after a couple days I decided to see how many of them I could photograph without being noticed. Perhaps I should have asked permission, but that would have been wierd, too, and I figured they were intentionally on display, so why not?  Since I don't know the owners' names (except one) and have not shown any faces, I think I am safe for publishing. 

So enjoy .........

 
Respectfully covered buns

 
Respectfully uncovered buns

 
Sandy buns

 
Bubble blowing buns

 
Big buns

 
Baby Oil Buns

 
Buns and boobs?

 
Beautiful Buns

Bye bye beach buns.
He disfrutado té observa.
(I have enjoyed watching you)


Wednesday, May 17, 2017

17.05.17. Last full day on the Island

The day started with a short walk around the corner to rent a bicycle from one of the many scuba/snorkel/day boat trip excursion package counters in El Centro but this one also rents bicycles.  It is the same place I rented from last week and I reminded the counter dude that he told me if I come back another day the price will be 100 rather than the 150 I paid the first time. Good business, I thought, encourage repeat customers. Today, after listening to my Spanish reminder ( he was native and spoke less Englidh than I spoke Spanish) he said OK but told me this price was for me only, not my friends. I told him "yo intendi, mis labios están cerrado" ( I understand, my lips are sealed).  

The negotiations complete, I took Off on "bici blanca"  headed out of El Centro toward the other end of the island by 9:30 in the morning. 
 

It was not too hot yet, and I was very happy with my choice of activity for the day.  I planned to explore the island using a different path because today I had started three hours earlier and I knew the terrain. 

First stop was desayuno at Green Verde, a highly rated restaurant I had been pointed to by two other places I stopped at first looking for breakfast. 
 

The restaurant was small, but clean and proud of the recycled materials used to create the tables, bathroom fixtures and public spaces. The food was pretty on the plate and home cooked. I had a Mexican omelet with fresh cucumber lemonade ( which was delicious!). 
 
When I was done, I engaged the owner with compliments about the food and drink.  He told me my Spanish was good ( I've heard this from almost everyone I've had a conversation with in Spanish so I am encouraged and know I'm on the right track). Two thumbs up for Green Verde!

After breakfast I continued south along the perimeter road I knew, but took the first opportunity to turn inland and explore the middle island where locals live. Really glad I did because I found an inland lagoon completely surrounded by a bike path - maybe a little more than a mile total distance. 
 
I went around twice saying Hola to everyone I passed - even the one white woman who greeted me first with Hello.  I sat on a bench for a while to look at my phone ( that's another post some day) and was soon joined by an older friendly man who told me he was Mayan.  My Spanish was not up to the task of understanding him, but was able to say a few words of basic conversation.  

I stopped at a small local market for a liter of water, a banana and a mango. I asked the woman if she had a plastic knife.  She did not, but offered to cut the mango for me. All for the total cost of 21 pesos or about  $1.

By now it was after noon and getting warm. I passed a long driveway with a sign that said Albatross -Sail Away and one guard sitting at a table in the shade. I made the good decision to turn around and ask the guard if the place was accesdible to the public (remember, all of this is in my struggling but somehow adequate Spanish). He said no, it was  a prívate resort but I yes, I could tale a look. He walked with me down the driveway and called for his boss who spoke better English, but I continúed to attemp to comunícate in Spanish which is why, I believe, I was given permission to come on in.   

What came next was totally enjoyable. This was a private beachside resort with palm trees for shade and comfy beach loungers like the ones that cost 300 pesos on the main beach in El Centro.  The place was staffed to accommodate the prepaid guests who came in by the boatload for lunch during their snorkel excursion.  
 
I was there with no gate fee and was introduced to the bartender because while I was not going to crash the food part of the party, I said I might have a beverage. I went directly to the water to cool off, then bought a beer and settled in to a lounge chair to watch the people disembark, 
 
go through the buffet line for food, then shop, sit or swim for a while before reboarding. At one point I was there between boats with no other people except the staff and was extremely obvious.  I bussed some stray drink glasses when I returned my empty bottle and the bar staff apologized to me ( for choosing to busy own stuff?) I went back to sit alone in the loungers and was asked by another staff person if I had eaten and whether I was missing my boat. It was awesome. When the next boat came in one of the passengers asked me how I got there so early and I said I came by bicycle. He said "that's what I should have done". Note to self:  Skip the high priced tourist excursions and make your own way by bicycle.  I'm not sure if this would work for a larger group of English only speakers, though. 

I left after a couple hours and was greeted by the driveway guard who acknowledged my bike which he was watching for me.  I said thanks and tipped him, so my gate fee was actually 20 pesos and a beer for a nice stop in paradise. 

I biked all the way to the south end of the island again, stopping to watch the zip liners over the water but did not visit the Mayan Goddess Ixchel again. Instead I found a place to check out the Caribbean beach side of the island for a minute
 
but the sun was too hot, the water too rough to enter and the beach to uninhabited to linger long.  

On my way back to town I passed a women's beading co-op with four local women working on their jewelry creations at a table inside the small brick building at the top of a hill with a nice breeze flowing through. I was able to confirm that the locally made beaded jewelry coming from them is not sold in the markets in town, only in their workshop.     The items in the stores in town are shipped in from elsewhere (and probably not hand made). I've always been a fan of buying from crafters, so I was happy to have found this place by getting off the beaten path.

Last stop before my 5:00PM deadline with bici Blanca was at The Soggy Peso - a lagoon side bar and restaurant I had been referred to.  I bought a Bloody Mary, took it away from the bar down to the palm tree shaded beach and splashed in the water to cool down.  
 
I was a little disturbed by the 18 inch long iguana scurrying around in the shaded sand, but decided he was not going to bother me. 
 
so I settled into another lounge chair for a half hour, enjoying palm trees, the water traffic and my book.

I returned bici Blanca to it's owner 5 minutes before the deadline and went to my room for a cold shower and some R & R before a walk to the local beach to see yet another beautiful sunset.
 
Reminds me of Carlsbad ( except much warmer and no rocks) and the question "How many sunset pictures are enough?"  

I'm still working on the answer to that one.